Last updated: August 21, 2026
These are the published child-safety standards for be there — find your people (the "be there." app and website, operated by Be There, LLC). We have zero tolerance for child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE). We prohibit any content or behavior on the Service that sexualizes, exploits, endangers, or solicits minors, including child sexual abuse material (CSAM), grooming, sextortion, and trafficking. Accounts involved in such behavior are removed, and we report as described in Section 5.
Be There is a social events service for adults. Signing up requires a date of birth, and the Service is restricted to people 18 and older. We do not knowingly allow minors to use the Service; any account found to belong to someone under 18 is deleted (see Section 9 of our Privacy Policy).
The Service has no public content and no open discovery. Chat exists only in private, event-scoped rooms among signed-in, verified attendees of the same event or small group — there is no direct messaging between members and no public posting. Room access is checked live against the event roster on every request, so a removed member loses access immediately.
Every chat room has a Report a concern button (the flag icon in the room header). Reports are private: they are never shown to other guests and are not part of matching. The post-event feedback flow includes the same private concern step. Members can also block another member from any of that member's messages, which hides their messages immediately.
Concerns can also be reported by anyone — including people without an account, parents, and guardians — by emailing hello@joinbethere.com.
Every report is reviewed by a person on the Be There team. Filing a report notifies our safety reviewers the same day; report details are held in an access-controlled queue visible only to them. Depending on what we find, we remove offending messages (removals hide the message for everyone while preserving evidence for review), remove a member from an event — which immediately revokes their room access — or remove their account entirely.
If we identify apparent CSAM or CSAE on the Service, we preserve the relevant material as required and report it to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) CyberTipline in accordance with our obligations under 18 U.S.C. § 2258A, and we cooperate with law enforcement, including responding to valid legal requests. We comply with applicable child-safety laws in the regions where the Service operates.
Our designated child-safety point of contact is hello@joinbethere.com. This inbox is monitored by the Be There team, and child-safety reports sent to it receive priority, human review.